Category: Critical Thinking in Islam

  • Summer Is a Sunnah Too: Finding Barakah in Unstructured Days

    Summer Is a Sunnah Too: Finding Barakah in Unstructured Days

    “Summer is a sunnah.”
    Not officially, of course. But in spirit—yes.

    In Islam, spirituality is not a side activity—it’s the purpose. But the heart doesn’t connect with Allah in a rush. It connects when there’s space to reflect. And reflection requires… time. Stillness. The kind of unstructured, quiet time that modern life has almost entirely erased.

    But what better season than summer to reclaim it?


    Slowness is Sunnah

    The Prophet ﷺ didn’t rush through life. He walked with intention, paused when he spoke, and spent hours in the night simply being—with his Lord, with the world around him, and with himself.

    Compare that to today’s pace: achievement, productivity, entertainment. Every moment must be “used.” Every silence, filled. The modern world defines happiness as excitement. But real joy? It’s far more subtle. It’s what we feel when we’re fully present.

    And ironically, it’s through our children that we get to taste it again.


    Through Their Eyes, We Remember

    There’s a kind of barakah in a child’s gaze. When we’re not rushing, we start to see what they see:
    A bumblebee lazily hopping from one flower to the next.
    A mama duck gliding across the river, her babies trailing behind like beads on a string.
    The hush of a beach as a flock of birds pauses on its migration.

    They are not bored. Not when we’re present with them. Not when we slow down enough to notice what they already see.


    But… the Kids Say They’re Bored!

    Here’s the uncomfortable truth: Boredom isn’t a problem.

    For most of human history, boredom was a part of life. Shepherds spent days under the open sky watching sheep and clouds. Merchants waited at their stalls. Mothers rocked babies to sleep with nothing but their thoughts for company.

    It’s only recently that we’ve come to fear boredom—as if it were a failure of parenting or a threat to happiness.

    But maybe, just maybe, boredom is the gateway to deeper presence.


    Let the Water Settle

    If the mind is like a lake, it only becomes clear when it stops moving. The ripples of constant stimulation—TV, tablets, even “educational” content—keep it murky.

    A rested mind sees more clearly. A brain, like a muscle, needs downtime—not just sleep, but real rest: quiet moments with no agenda.

    And yes, even if the content is “good,” it can still be too much. You wouldn’t eat 10,000 calories of broccoli a day. So why feed your child 10,000 mental calories, even of the “educational” kind?


    The Low-Information Diet

    This summer, try cutting back. Just a little.

    No, you don’t need a perfectly curated Montessori schedule or a screen-free Pinterest life. But maybe for one hour a day, just… stop.

    Let your child sit under a tree. Let them lie on the floor. Let them be bored.

    And then wait.

    Soon, they’ll pick up a stick. Or ask you why the clouds move. Or start humming a tune they just made up.

    And you’ll realize: this is learning. This is presence. This is the kind of summer that nurtures the soul.


    Finally…

    Let your kids taste the slowness we’ve lost. Let them discover the rhythm of a day without rush. Let them experience what it feels like to just be.

    After all, summer is a sunnah too.

    And for those other moments, where you want to keep them entertained with high value material (that good old broccoli). We’ve got you.

    At Mayous, we create children’s books that slow things down—stories rooted in faith, filled with wonder, and designed to spark meaningful reflection.

    You can explore our catalog of fully illustrated storybooks here:
    👉 Muslim Kids Storybook Catalog

    Or you can access our free digital library and find your next favourite bedtime story here:

    👉 Read islamic stories for free

  • Islam and Delayed Gratification: Building Resilient Kids

    Islam and Delayed Gratification: Building Resilient Kids

    From Farmers, to Factory Workers, to Sedentary Office Workers… in Less Than 100 Years

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    Many of us have heard the hadith that, in the end of times, time will accelerate.
    But is time just time? Or is it the events that happen within it that truly define what time is?

    When we look back at the last century, the growth of our lifestyle has been unprecedented.
    Our great-grandfathers worked the land. Our grandfathers were simple merchants or held straightforward jobs during the height of the industrial era.
    And we… make our living sitting in front of screens, working alongside AI, in a deeply connected, digital world.

    However… this article isn’t about AI doomsday predictions, nor is it a nostalgic plea to return to the “good old days.”

    Let’s talk about something that hasn’t changed, no matter the era, technology, or lifestyle:

    The Time It Takes for Things to Grow

    Whether we’re talking about planting a seed that becomes food, training muscles through physical effort, or developing our minds to gain new skills or strengthen character—things take time.

    And nothing changes that.

    The fact that our attention span has shrunk to just 3 seconds, thanks to the lightning pace of information, has completely reshaped what we expect from the world.
    But it shouldn’t.

    Good things take time to build—just as they take time to grow.

    Kids Living in the 3-Second Age

    This is especially important for our kids, who are growing up in a world where everything is instantly available.
    Bored? Tap a screen. Need something? It appears in seconds.
    Even parents rush to help or provide, unknowingly feeding this expectation of speed and ease.

    But this sets children up for struggle when faced with reality: learning takes time, homework can feel endless, and progress often feels slow.
    If they’re not taught to wait, to trust the process, and to persevere—they’ll see effort as failure and slowness as punishment.

    So How Do We Teach Sabr?

    One of the gentlest and most powerful ways to teach sabr (patience) is through storytelling.

    Our storybook With Sabr, What Allah Plans Always Grows is a fully illustrated tale that captures this exact lesson. It blends heart, moral, and science—explaining how patience is not just a virtue, but a universal truth.

    📖 Inside the story, your child will discover:

    • A simple fable inspired by nature
    • The Quran concept of sabr
    • Scientific facts about how plants grow over time

    You can explore our catalog of fully illustrated storybooks here:
    👉 Muslim Kids Storybook Catalog

    Or you can access our free digital library and find your next favourite bedtime story here:

    👉 Read islamic stories for free

    Let them grow with the stories you plant. 🌱

  • Why Muslim Kids Aren’t Smart

    Why Muslim Kids Aren’t Smart

    (And What That Really Says About Us)

    Let’s talk about the uncomfortable thought we’ve all had at some point:

    “Why do other kids seem so much smarter?”

    They speak confidently. They ask deep questions. They seem curious, engaged, driven.

    Meanwhile, our kids?

    They’re memorizing facts they don’t understand.

    They’re praised for sitting quietly, not for thinking critically.

    And we wonder why they’re not shining.

    Here’s the truth: Muslim kids aren’t lacking intelligence.

    They’re lacking the space to grow it.

    We Reward Obedience Over Curiosity

    From a young age, many Muslim children are taught to:

    • Listen, don’t ask.

    • Repeat, don’t explore.

    • Follow, don’t question.

    But what does that do to a child’s brain?

    It shrinks it.

    It turns potential into performance.

    It produces rule-followers, not thinkers.

    And then we wonder why, in school or in life, they hesitate.

    They’ve been conditioned to wait for permission instead of seeking knowledge.

    Intelligence Isn’t Just About IQ — It’s About Environment

    Kids become smart by being allowed to be smart.

    That means:

    • Being asked what they think.

    • Being allowed to make mistakes.

    • Being challenged, stretched, inspired.

    • Being told that questions are not dangerous — they’re divine.

    But if every “why” is met with a glare or a guilt trip… that fire dies.

    What Our Books Should Do (But Usually Don’t)

    Too many “Islamic” storybooks today are just sermons in disguise.

    They tell kids what to do, but never show them how to think.

    At Mayous, we believe in books that respect children’s minds.

    Stories that:

    • Raise big questions

    • Include real emotions

    • Teach values through meaningful choices

    • Spark wonder about both faith and the world

    Because a smart child isn’t one who simply knows what’s halal.

    A smart child is one who knows why — and chooses it for themselves.

    Let’s Raise the Next Generation of Thoughtful Muslims

    Not just compliant.

    Not just well-behaved.

    But thoughtful, curious, and confident in both their faith and their intellect.

    Ready to Start That Journey?

    📚 Visit our free eBook library and discover storybooks designed to stretch your child’s heart and their mind — all rooted in Islamic values, without the preaching.

    👉 Start reading at mayous.org/read